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2.3 Looking at the digits, teens, and tens, we see that "four", "five", "eight", "nine", "eleven", "fourteen", "fifteen", "eighteen", "nineteen", "forty", "fifty", "eighty" and "ninety" come before "one." Looking at just the single digits, we have 4 possibilities of each of N, Nxx (N hundred), Nxxx (N thousand), and Nxxxxx (N hundred thousand) (where N is 4, 5, 8, or 9). Nxx can be from N00 to N99, giving 100 numbers, Nxxx can be from N000 to N999, giving 1000 numbers, and Nxxxxx can be from N00000 to N99999, giving 100000 numbers. Therefore, the digits give us 4*(100000+1000+100+1)=404404 numbers. Of the teens we have 5 possibilities of each of MN and MNxxx (where MN is 11, 14 15, 18, or 19). MNxxx can be from MN000 to MN999, giving 1000 numbers. Therefore, the teens give us 5(1000+1)=5005 numbers. Of the tens we have 4 possibilities of each of Nx and Nxxxx (where N is 4, 5, 8, or 9). Nx can range from N0 to N9, giving 10 numbers, and Nxxxx can range from N0000 to N9999, giving 10000 numbers. Therefore, the tens giv us 4*(10000+10)=40040 more numbers. Thus, "one" comes after 404404+5005+40040=449449 other numbers. "One" is the 449450th number on the list.